Orphan Elders
Honor & Dignity
After a brain aneurism, heart, and lung failures; a World War II and Korean War veteran, “R.S.â€, could only communicate by writing his questions and short responses. In his last communication to his loved ones, he struggled to say something very important, but he could not be understood. He was given a pen and paper,…
Read MoreWhen a Family Feud Needs an Umpire
A family in conflict is not a pretty sight. Before you know it, a family can begin litigation over the family jewels, the family dog, or most often control of decision about mom or over assets. It can get expensive very quickly. Litigation squanders family resources, but sometimes it is inevitable. While it’s not what…
Read MoreWho Are Orphan Elders Among Us?
The Chain-Smoking Ex-Nun It was a chain-smoking ex-nun who taught me what my job required. More than the law firm, more than the fiduciary classes, she taught me that my job is often as “midwife into heaven”. She was one of the first “orphan elders” I helped as trustee and health agent. She taught me…
Read MoreIndependence Takes Sacrifice
The 4th of July is a day we celebrate the America’s Independence. We remember the history of our country which includes recalling the sacrifice of many who gave their lives for our freedom. Just as we all know that gaining and keeping freedom has a cost, we must also understand that independence (for countries or individuals) requires a support system, effort, and sacrifice.
Read MoreWho Are Orphan Elders Among Us Part 1?
Peter’s Story Peter had a tragic childhood. His mother and he fled his birth country due to persecution. Eventually, he learned a second language and immigrated to the United States, where he became a teacher. Since he was single and he saved money, his estate upon his death, was worth over $5,000,000. Since he had…
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